Letting Your Puppy Enjoy “Me Time”
Bringing a new puppy into your life is pure joy – tiny paws, wagging tails, and plenty of cuddles. But here’s a little secret: teaching your pup to enjoy some alone time is just as important as playtime. Puppies that learn independence early are more confident, calmer, and less likely to develop separation anxiety when you can’t be by their side.
At Astoria Fetch, we know that helping puppies feel secure on their own is a key part of raising a happy dog. Here’s how to get started – without turning your home into a stress zone.
Why Alone Time Matters
Dogs are social by nature, but constant togetherness isn’t always healthy. Without learning to be alone, pups can become anxious, frustrated, or destructive when left on their own. (Think chewed shoes or shredded cushions – yikes!)
Teaching your pup to be comfortable solo helps them:
Feel safe and relaxed when you’re out
Develop confidence and self-assurance
Avoid the stress and misbehavior that comes with separation anxiety
Build a “Happy Place”
Start by giving your puppy a cozy corner where they can unwind.
A crate or playpen works well as a personal retreat
Fill it with toys, chews, and even meals to make it fun
Keep the area positive, safe, and inviting, never punitive
Think of this spot as their own little lounge – somewhere they can nap, chew, or just chill while feeling secure.
Small Steps, Big Wins
Once your pup enjoys their space, you can start practicing short departures:
Leave them with a favorite toy or treat
Step out for a few minutes and return calmly
Reward relaxed behavior with praise or treats
Gradually increase the time and distance
Consistency is everything. Keep departures and returns low-key, dramatic entrances or exits can create anxiety rather than comfort.
Keep Minds Busy
Even confident pups need mental stimulation when alone. Puzzle toys, Kongs filled with wet or frozen treats, or interactive games help keep boredom at bay and reinforce positive alone-time behavior.
A puppy comfortable with alone time is less likely to develop separation anxiety later. By encouraging confidence and play in solitude now, you’re giving them skills to cope calmly whenever you’re out of sight.
Extra Support: Astoria Fetch Puppy Walks
Some pups need a little extra guidance to build confidence and social skills. Our puppy-friendly walks in Astoria provide:
Safe exposure to new sights, sounds, and smells
Gentle socialization with other dogs in structured settings
Fun, enriching exercise that reinforces calm, confident behavior
With regular walks and socialization, your puppy can grow into a well-adjusted, happy, and confident adult dog, giving you peace of mind that they’re safe and thriving.
Give your puppy the best chance to be their most confident self! Book a walk with Astoria Fetch Today.
